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Standing Armlocks in Self Defense

July 10, 2023 By Stephan Kesting

Standing armlocks are a staple in the martial arts, including Aikido, classical ju-jujutsu, and many modern self defense systems. They're usually practised something like this: your partner comes in with a lunging punch, you block and sidestep, control the arm, step in, and then apply pressure to the arm until he taps out. Here's what some of those standing armbars from … [Read more...]

Five Rear Bearhug Counters

February 13, 2022 By Self Defense Tutorials

Suplex and Slam in MMA from the Rear Bearhug

If someone gets behind you and puts you in a rear bearhug then you have to take defensive action right away! That's because getting picked up and slammed on your head is one of the worst-case scenarios in a confrontation. It's one thing to get punched in the face is bad, but getting hit in the head by a pavement-covered planet is much worse. Here's a video I put out with … [Read more...]

Move the Fight to Win the Fight

July 10, 2021 By Self Defense Tutorials

move the fight to win the fight

I was once involved in restraining a crackhead thief until the police arrived. He'd been caught red-handed with a bunch of stolen stereo equipment and women's purses. Now I had him cornered in an alley, carefully watching his hands in case he pulled out a knife, but otherwise not too worried about my physical danger. (I was a lot bigger and stronger than him, plus had decades … [Read more...]

Practical Control Techniques for Law Enforcement

January 2, 2020 By Stephan Kesting

Arm Drag to Seatbelt Control

Law enforcement officers (including police officers, sheriffs, state troopers, corrections officers, deputies and more) have an incredibly difficult job. Part of that job is the possibility of physical confrontations with aggressive individuals or groups. Very broadly physical confrontations can be divided into two categories... Controlling someone who doesn't want  … [Read more...]

The Battle to Functionalize Traditional Martial Arts, with Dr Mark Cheng

December 14, 2018 By Stephan Kesting

Functional Martial Arts with Dr Mark Cheng

It was a pleasure to talk with Dr Mark Cheng on my podcast today (The Strenuous Life Podcast). Mark is a lifelong Tai Chi practitioner who was featured in Tim Ferris's 4 Hour Body book and created the Tai Chen warmup and movement awareness training training for the P90X people.  But he's also done a TON of training in reality-based, pressure-tested martial arts, which gives … [Read more...]

Clothing Chokes, Sweater Slams, and Techniques to Use During the Holidays

December 19, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

clothing choke

If you're a normal human being leading a normal life and you suddenly have to defend yourself, then most of the time you're going to be wearing some sort of clothing. (If you're wandering down the street naked and get in a violent confrontation then it's likely, as BJJ black belt Kurt Osiander likes to say so bluntly, that "Son, you f**ked up a long time ago...") Now … [Read more...]

How to Headbutt Someone

June 24, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

blast double leg with headbutt to solar plexus

Want to learn the fine points of headbutting someone into oblivion and how to avoid hurting yourself in the process? How about using your head to amplify takedowns, set up strikes, and dominate the clinching range? It's all covered in this video on the Self Defense Tutorials channel in a video called "How to Use Your Head as a … [Read more...]

Submissions for Self Defense

June 17, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

3 Street Submissions

In self defense you need at least some submissions in your arsenal.  Breaking someone's arm or putting them to sleep with a choke is often a much more effective (and safer) strategy than standing in front of the guy and trading haymakers. Now when it comes to submissions you have thousands of options: armlocks, chokes, wrist locks, neck cranks, face crushes etc. But … [Read more...]

How to Get Behind Enemy Lines in a Streetfight

June 6, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

5 ways of Getting Behind Your Opponent

If you and your opponent are squaring off face-to-face then it's sort of an equal situation. From here he can swing at you and you can swing at him... He can try to tackle you, and you can try to clinch him. To paraphrase the old song, at this point anything he can do, hopefully you can do better! But we don't want it to be a fair fight.  Ideally you should set up a … [Read more...]

How to Make Sure Your Martial Art Will Work in the Street

June 2, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

How to make your martial art functional

You may train in a martial art, but will your techniques really work in the street, in real life, against a real attacker? This is a question a lot of martial artists wrestle with... No matter what martial art you are learning, there are countless techniques you will be trying to master and then combine to serve various purposes.  It can be overwhelming, and even once you … [Read more...]

The 3 Components of Every Martial Art

March 19, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

3 components of every martial art

If you've spent any time in the world of martial arts then you know there can be a dizzying variety of disciplines to train in. And within each of those martial arts styles there are further differences depending on which school or instructor you train with. But there's an easy way to simplify all these different martial arts and styles and it comes down to something the … [Read more...]

Best Takedowns for Self Defense

February 10, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

Best Takedowns for Self Defense

I've never advocated that every fight go to the ground; sometimes it's the right decision and sometimes it's not.  The fact is that street situations are far too variable to have a one-size-fits-all approach. That being said, taking a fight to the ground is an important tool to have in your toolbox. For example that option could prevent someone from running away, or if your … [Read more...]

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