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Is This Good Pain or Bad Pain?

October 5, 2022 By Self Defense Tutorials

Stephan Kesting vs Chris Leben

Pain is subjective and contextual. Awakening to chest pain in the middle of the night is terrifying — a possible sign of a heart attack. But the very same stabbing pain after a hard workout is experienced completely differently: maybe it’s your pectoral muscles shrieking from too many pushups, or your lungs burning from hard interval training. It’s the same sensation … [Read more...]

It’s Just a Belt Folks….

March 30, 2022 By Self Defense Tutorials

Is the black belt sacred?

This is just your daily reminder that a black belt is a symbol of the amount of training someone has put into a martial art. But just because something is a symbol does not mean it's a sacred object. It's just a piece of cloth. Furthermore, the fact that a person has a black belt doesn't endow them with any form of moral superiority. At best a black belt only tells you … [Read more...]

Pressure Testing Knife, Stick and Gun Defenses with Burton Richardson

December 16, 2021 By Self Defense Tutorials

Burton Richardson is BJJ black belt and has an incredible lineage in the Filipino Martial Arts as well, having trained with many of the top instructors in the world.  I was thrilled to have him on the podcast to talk about pressure tested self defense in the real world. If you prefer, here's our whole conversation in video format... And here's the streaming … [Read more...]

Push, Pull, Squat, Hinge and Carry – the 5 Strength Exercises Every Martial Artist Should Do Weekly

October 1, 2021 By Self Defense Tutorials

5 fundamental strength training exercises

Strength training is super important for martial artists. Done properly lifting weights makes you stronger, faster, and much more resilient to injury. But how do you balance a busy training schedule in the dojo with spending time in the gym under heavy iron? The answer is to prioritize your training around making sure that you do at least one exercise in the 5 basic … [Read more...]

Avoid the Fight to Win the Fight

May 27, 2021 By Self Defense Tutorials

Today's video (and podcast episode) is story about the first time I 'won' a street fight by realising that the other guy - an older, shabbily dressed, homeless man - was almost certainly mentally ill. There are a lot of people out there behaving like a**holes. And it's normal to feel the urge to punch them right in the mouth to teach them a lesson.But it can really shift … [Read more...]

The Trap of Placating Your Ego with Terrible Form

September 10, 2020 By Self Defense Tutorials

Terrible form

Over 40 years of martial arts training I figure I’ve done something like 500,000 pushups. Practice makes perfect, so with that many reps under my belt you’d probably think I’d be good at them, right? Sadly the answer is a resounding “No!” Or, more precisely, the answer is “Not right now” You see, 9 months ago I completely buggered my shoulder taking a spectacular fall while … [Read more...]

MMA Fighter Fights for His Life in Home Invasion

April 9, 2020 By Stephan Kesting

MMA Fighter Anthony Smith Home Invasion

On Sunday April 5th, 2020, at 4 am in the morning, MMA fighter Anthony Smith found himself in the fight of his life to protect his wife and kids. He went from being sound asleep to fighting an intruder a few seconds later who just wouldn't quit no matter what was thrown at him. What might sound strange is that he 6' 4", 230 lb, highly athletic, super conditioned fighter … [Read more...]

Beating the Adrenaline Dump in a Fight

June 28, 2018 By Stephan Kesting

beating the adrenaline dump

Adrenaline is a hell of a drug. On the one hand adrenaline makes you stronger, faster, and hugely increases your pain tolerance... On the other hand it destroys fine motor function, gives you tunnel vision, or even makes your mind go blank. Adrenaline is a powerful horse to ride, but you need to control it so it takes you where you want to go!https://t.co/9ywxoUuuts — … [Read more...]

A Case for Simplifying Your Self Defense Techniques

January 21, 2018 By Stephan Kesting

Simplify sign at Apple

Supposedly there is a sign at Apple HQ that reads "Simplify. Simplify. Simplify." with the second two "simplifies" crossed out. I think that's a really elegant (and funny) way to get a point across when it comes to design, but it's also really important for training in the martial arts for self defense purposes. Training in class, as we get better over time we also tend … [Read more...]

Get Your Hands Out of Your Pockets!!!

December 2, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

Today's message is short and really simple, but it's important.  And it's a mistake that I see people make all the time... The mistake is walking around with your hands buried in your pocket.  If someone decides to attack you when you're like this, with your best weapons sheathed and out of commission, then you're a sitting duck. It's already tough enough to defend … [Read more...]

3 Great Examples of Verbal De-Escalation

September 12, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

Tim Tackett Verbal De-escalation

Here's a great video that I found of Dan Inosanto's earliest students, Tim Tackett, talking about 'verbal jiu-jitsu' at Erik Paulson's gym in California. That might sound boring but it's super-crazy important stuff!! He starts out by telling the story of how an acquaintance of his spent 6 years in jail for throwing a single punch. That punch knocked his opponent out, who … [Read more...]

Self Defense Tips from a Long Time Bouncer

August 19, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

tales from the door - what we can learn from a bouncer

Doormen and bouncers deal with potential violent confrontations every night they're working, and that makes their experiences and insights super-valuable to the rest of us. In this first instalment of 'Tales from the Door' I pick the brain of my friend, training partner and long-time bouncer Chad Skands. Some of the topics we cover include... Specific strategies to … [Read more...]

Avoiding the Street Ambush

July 20, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

Ambush in progress

You're walking down the street towards your car and some dude gets gets in your face and starts talking to you. Maybe he's asking for change, wants to know what time it is, or is actually being aggressive. Anyway, if he's in your personal space start trying to figure out if this guy is an actual threat or just an annoyance. And if you think that this could go south then … [Read more...]

How to Deal with Fear in the Street

June 30, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

dealing with fear

Fear is the mind killer.  Well, it certainly can be, if you don’t know how to control it. Many people worry about how they would react if they suddenly had to use their martial arts skills in a real life situation.  Even if you train regularly, there is a huge difference between practicing in the safety of a dojo with a partner, and dealing with the wildly unpredictable … [Read more...]

How to Make Sure Your Martial Art Will Work in the Street

June 2, 2017 By Stephan Kesting

How to make your martial art functional

You may train in a martial art, but will your techniques really work in the street, in real life, against a real attacker? This is a question a lot of martial artists wrestle with... No matter what martial art you are learning, there are countless techniques you will be trying to master and then combine to serve various purposes.  It can be overwhelming, and even once you … [Read more...]

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